I do believe in love at first sight. I will know him and he will know me and we will know it is right. I have been in love before and I wish those relationships could have continued but distance and careers (as well as other issues) have often been impediments. So, if there is going to be a relationship, it must be a two-way street. Love is only the first step. The rest will take patience, understanding, communication and trust. I am at an age now that while a healthy, with a side of wild, sex life is still important, it is equally important to find a man that thinks beyond the sex and can be a partner in every sense of the word. It is a wonderful feeling to have someone to hold all night long and that excites me every time I see him.